Decision and Destiny

What a beautiful Sunday morning for daytime outing with lovely girl! 

Just love the dating with Alice :) 

Also meet a Korean K pop star... hehe... Just Kidding...

Arch,

as usual, 

fabulous object to be shot!

This is Famous Merdeka Square in KL! 

What makes the difference in the quality of people’s lives? What is the single factor that shapes and controls our ultimate destiny?

Most people think that biography is destiny, that the past equals the future. And you know what? It can—but only if you live there. Any study of history shows that the difference in human beings comes down to one thing: an ability to harness the power of decision, often in spite of adverse conditions. The history of our world is the result of decisions.

“Success and failure are not overnight experiences. It’s the small decisions along the way that cause people to fail or succeed.”
–Anthony Robbins

It’s the power of decision that caused Rosa Parks to remain in her seat and state, “No, I will not go to the back of the bus.” It took a forceful decision to compel an unarmed man to stand in front of a tank at Tiananmen Square. It was the strength of decision that led President John F. Kennedy to declare that an American would be first to walk on the moon by the end of the 1960s.

Decision is the ultimate power—and there are three core decisions each of us makes every moment we’re alive. These decisions have the capacity to empower, advance, frustrate or derail us, depending on what we choose:

Decision 1: What are you going to focus on?

Do you focus on things you’re excited about or things you fear? Whatever you focus on, you experience. Wherever focus goes, energy flows.

Decision 2: What does this mean?

Is this the end or the beginning? Are you being punished or rewarded? The minute you decide to focus on something, you give it a meaning. How you define an event produces emotion and determines how you feel going forward.

Decision 3: What are you going to do?

Are you going to give up or follow through? The meanings we assign to events influence what actions we take as a result. It’s our decisions, not our
conditions, that ultimately shape the quality of our lives. At any moment the decision you make can change the course of your life forever.

“The man who has inspired millions to change their lives! [Tony] brings out the best in all of us. The world is a better place because of him.”
—Larry King, Emmy Award-Winning host of Larry King Live on CNN